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		<title>Merry Christmas</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 21:54:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Merry Christmas and may the Peace of the Lord be present in your life during this season. As I think about all of the events of 2011 I am led to highlight the concept of giving. This has been a year where I have seen many people give to those in need right here in [...]</p>
<div style="display:block"><small><em>by Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC <a href="http://www.bryanvignery.com/merry-christmas-2/#comments">Leave A Comment</a>http://twitter.com/bvigfocus<br />
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		<title>Trapped in the Silence of Shame</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 19:49:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Shame has been discussed since the early part of the Book of Genesis when Adam and Eve exhibited their shame by immediately covering themselves up after the fall. Shame is a natural expression of feeling overexposed in a particular situation or event. There is a point where this shame moves past a healthy shame into [...]</p>
<div style="display:block"><small><em>by Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC <a href="http://www.bryanvignery.com/trapped-in-the-silence-of-shame/#comments">Leave A Comment</a>http://twitter.com/bvigfocus<br />
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		<title>Respect</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 18:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>One thing that has personally impacted me over the past handful of years is the topic of respect. As I sat on a Southwest flight heading to Boise, Idaho, I was reminded as a teenage girl was asked multiple times to turn off her cell phone because the door to the cabin was shut, that [...]</p>
<div style="display:block"><small><em>by Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC <a href="http://www.bryanvignery.com/respect/#comments">Leave A Comment</a>http://twitter.com/bvigfocus<br />
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		<title>Spouse Selection</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2011 18:13:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever wondered why you selected the person that you did to be your significant other or spouse? Did you create the list of all of the qualities that you wanted and go after that person? Or did you decide that the person that found you or came across your path was just the [...]</p>
<div style="display:block"><small><em>by Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC <a href="http://www.bryanvignery.com/spouse-selection/#comments">Leave A Comment</a>http://twitter.com/bvigfocus<br />
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		<title>True or False</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Apr 2011 18:30:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>A few weeks ago I was having a conversation with a friend about tolerance in our world. I believe we have strayed far away from truth so much that we are blinded as a world by tolerance. The following Sunday after this conversation was had, I was at a service at our church and Pastor [...]</p>
<div style="display:block"><small><em>by Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC <a href="http://www.bryanvignery.com/true-or-false/#comments">Leave A Comment</a>http://twitter.com/bvigfocus<br />
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		<title>Do You Want an Intentional Marriage?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Mar 2011 15:36:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>You deserve to be intentional in many areas of your life. One of the areas that I will challenge you in is your marriage. Whether you are married or engaged, your relationship needs time and attention in order to make it successful. Don&#8217;t miss this opportunity to examine the effectiveness of your marriage and be [...]</p>
<div style="display:block"><small><em>by Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC <a href="http://www.bryanvignery.com/do-you-want-an-intentional-marriage/#comments">Leave A Comment</a>http://twitter.com/bvigfocus<br />
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		<title>Intentional New Year</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2011 18:55:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>As you embrace 2011 you deserve to be intentional in many areas of your life. One of the areas that I will challenge you in is your marriage. Whether you are married or engaged, your relationship needs time and attention in order to make it successful. Don&#8217;t miss this opportunity to examine the effectiveness of [...]</p>
<div style="display:block"><small><em>by Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC <a href="http://www.bryanvignery.com/intentional-new-year/#comments">Leave A Comment</a>http://twitter.com/bvigfocus<br />
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		<title>Merry Christmas!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Dec 2010 21:52:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I wish everyone a Very Merry Christmas and I hope that you and your family are Blessed this Holiday Season and may 2011 be full of growth!</p>
<div style="display:block"><small><em>by Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC <a href="http://www.bryanvignery.com/merry-christmas/#comments">Leave A Comment</a>http://twitter.com/bvigfocus<br />
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		<title>Ineffective Responses to Conflict</title>
		<link>http://www.bryanvignery.com/ineffective-responses-to-conflict/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Dec 2010 21:51:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>The drama triangle (sometimes known as the victim triangle) is a model of dysfunctional social interaction, created by psychotherapist Stephen Karpman. The triangle consists of  three ineffective, passive-aggressive responses to conflict. Participants playing a role in a drama triangle create misery for themselves and for others by playing either the Victim Role, Rescuer Role, or [...]</p>
<div style="display:block"><small><em>by Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC <a href="http://www.bryanvignery.com/ineffective-responses-to-conflict/#comments">Leave A Comment</a>http://twitter.com/bvigfocus<br />
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		<title>Holiday Stress</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2010 16:39:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Well whether we like it or not the holidays are right around the corner and that means Thanksgiving Dinners, Christmas parties, family visits, in-laws, children’s school functions, Christmas shopping, etc. Are you feeling stressed yet? Let&#8217;s look at some of the top stressors during the Holidays and the ways to reduce the stress that can [...]</p>
<div style="display:block"><small><em>by Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC <a href="http://www.bryanvignery.com/holiday-stress/#comments">Leave A Comment</a>http://twitter.com/bvigfocus<br />
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