Do You Want an Intentional Marriage?

You deserve to be intentional in many areas of your life. One of the areas that I will challenge you in is your marriage. Whether you are married or engaged, your relationship needs time and attention in order to make it successful. Don’t miss this opportunity to examine the effectiveness of your marriage and be more connected and intimate with your spouse.

NAVIGATING MARRIAGE

INTENTIONAL CHOICES MARRIAGE WORKSHOP (download brochure)

Led by Marriage Coaches:
Bryan and Stephanie Vignery
Gary and Christy Kuzmich

Our mission is to assist couples to plot a course through intentional choices that result in action that empowers growth. Today’s marriages need intention more than ever before. With the divorce rate at approximately 50% percent for first marriages, 67% for second and 74% for third marriages, couples need to spend time looking at what is important in keeping marriage fresh and alive! We are committed to helping couples reach a new level of effectiveness in their marriage.

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CREATING AND SHARING A MAGNETIC MARRIAGE

Remember why you were attracted to your spouse? Was it magnetic? Today others are looking for radiant marriages that they can model. So what is the attraction power in a marriage? It is knowing who you are as an individual and being committed to a marriage vision and mission that creates radiance! Intentional marriages lead to a deeper level of intimacy and fulfillment that transcends and attracts.

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LOCATION

11100 Ash Street, Suite 100
Leawood, KS 66211

DATE

Friday March 25th 7pm – 10:30pm
Saturday March  26th 8:30am – 2:30pm

Friday March 26th 7pm – 10:30pm
Saturday March  27th 8:30am – 2:30pm

PRICE and AVAILABILITY

Conference Price $395 per couple.

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Intentional New Year

As you embrace 2011 you deserve to be intentional in many areas of your life. One of the areas that I will challenge you in is your marriage. Whether you are married or engaged, your relationship needs time and attention in order to make it successful. Don’t miss this opportunity to examine the effectiveness of your marriage and start 2011 more connected and intimate with your spouse.

NAVIGATING MARRIAGE

INTENTIONAL CHOICES MARRIAGE CONFERENCE (download brochure)

Led by Marriage Coaches:
Bryan and Stephanie Vignery
Gary and Christy Kuzmich

Our mission is to assist couples to plot a course through intentional choices that result in action that empowers growth. Today’s marriages need intention more than ever before. With the divorce rate at approximately 50% percent for first marriages, 67% for second and 74% for third marriages, couples need to spend time looking at what is important in keeping marriage fresh and alive! We are committed to helping couples reach a new level of effectiveness in their marriage.

REGISTER NOW

CREATING AND SHARING A MAGNETIC MARRIAGE

Remember why you were attracted to your spouse? Was it magnetic? Today others are looking for radiant marriages that they can model. So what is the attraction power in a marriage? It is knowing who you are as an individual and being committed to a marriage vision and mission that creates radiance! Intentional marriages lead to a deeper level of intimacy and fulfillment that transcends and attracts.

REGISTER NOW

LOCATION

11100 Ash Street, Suite 100
Leawood, KS 66211

DATE

Friday November 19th 7pm – 10:30pm
Saturday November  20th 8:30am – 2:30pm

PRICE and AVAILABILITY

Conference Price $395 per couple.

REGISTER NOW

Navigating Marriage – Intentional Choices Conference

NAVIGATING MARRIAGE

INTENTIONAL CHOICES MARRIAGE CONFERENCE (download brochure)

Led by Marriage Coaches:
Bryan and Stephanie Vignery
Gary and Christy Kuzmich

Our mission is to assist couples to plot a course through intentional choices that result in action that empowers growth. Today’s marriages need intention more than ever before. With the divorce rate at approximately 50% percent for first marriages, 67% for second and 74% for third marriages, couples need to spend time looking at what is important in keeping marriage fresh and alive! We are committed to helping couples reach a new level of effectiveness in their marriage.

REGISTER HERE

CREATING AND SHARING A MAGNETIC MARRIAGE

Remember why you were attracted to your spouse? Was it magnetic? Today others are looking for radiant marriages that they can model. So what is the attraction power in a marriage? It is knowing who you are as an individual and being committed to a marriage vision and mission that creates radiance! Intentional marriages lead to a deeper level of intimacy and fulfillment that transcends and attracts.

REGISTER HERE

LOCATION

11100 Ash Street, Suite 100
Leawood, KS 66211

DATE

Friday November 19th 7pm – 10:30pm
Saturday November  20th 8:30am – 3:30pm

PRICE and AVAILABILITY

Conference Price $395 – The first 12 couples go for $295 per couple.

REGISTER HERE

Leaving a Legacy

I witnessed a first hand testimony of a young man in his early twenties that was caught in the middle of anger and frustration due to the possible separation of his parents. His parents reached the point of what they thought was no return three years ago in their marriage and the son, at that point, decided he didn’t like his parents too much nor did he respect them for disrupting his security of having parents that were together.

The reason that I tell this story is not to highlight what divorce or separation can do to kids, but to highlight intentional living by parents. You see, the mother in this situation decided to get some help and direction. Due to her taking action and being intentional, the father and their son ended up attending Focus Seminars. I witnessed them come from a level of disconnection to embracing each other with open communication and honesty that broke down the walls of anger and frustration in a matter of five days. It was heart warming see them then take that openness and honesty and connect it as a family with mom.

Five days of intentional motivation was all they needed to change the legacy of their family. It didn’t only change the family but the generations to come. Because parents decided to not let life beat them down any longer, they will cherish the fruits of not only a connected marriage but kids and grand-kids that will forever be changed.

This may or may not be your story. Regardless, I challenge you to put yourself in the middle of the situation that needs intentionality in your life right now. What is the first step that could be taken for you? Is someone important to you waiting for you to take the first step? Surround yourself with people that want you to succeed and lean on them through your burden. You have what it takes to push to the next level of effectiveness. Make it happen!

Time for a Couple Checkup?

You get your oil changed every 3,000 miles . . . you get your teeth cleaned at least once a year . . . you even get regular physical exams . . . Your marriage deserves a checkup too!

It is important to do a checkup of your marital or dating relationship to keep up with your relational demands. One of the areas of my coaching and counseling business has been focused on helping couples achieve an intentional relationship. A couple checkup is one of the most effective and intentional tools that I have found to take an insightful look at the key areas of your relationship including communication, conflict resolution, financial management, spiritual beliefs and more.

How does the Couple Checkup work?

  1. Contact me with you and your significant others email address, and for a special price of $29.95, a link will be provided for you and your significant other.
  2. Answer a few background questions about your relationship, allowing the Couple Checkup to be customized to your relationship stage (dating, engaged, or married) and structure (with or without children, forming a stepfamily, etc.).
  3. Spend 20-30 minutes reading through a series of statements and indicate whether you “agree” or “disagree” that each statement accurately describes your relationship.
  4. Your partner will also login and respond to the same statements.

Once you are both finished, the computer system analyzes your responses and immediately generates your comprehensive Couple Checkup Report (approximately 20 page PDF file). You can then setup time with me to go through the results of the assessment in detail either face-to-face or over Skype. Finally, you will receive an extensive Discussion Guide (PDF file) designed to help you discuss and apply your results.

The goals of a Couple Checkup are straightforward:

  • Take an in depth look at your own relationship
  • Begin to identify your relationship strengths and issues that need attention
  • Be proactive. Don’t wait for problems to become serious before dealing with them
  • Spur on productive and insightful conversation that leads to action and change

Discover - Taking an online relationship inventory and generating your Couple Checkup Report will peak your curiosity. As you explore your results, you and your partner will discover your strengths and issues. You’ll see where you agree and disagree as you gain insight into one another’s perceptions of your relationship. You need to know where you’re starting from so you can chart a course for where you want to go.

Share - A key to any great relationship is communication. But how do you bring up the difficult topics? How do you create a safe environment for open discussion? The topics covered in the Couple Checkup help generate productive conversations you wouldn’t otherwise have; conversations that apply specifically to your relationship.

Grow - Each couple going through the Couple Checkup process has access to a free Discussion Guide. This workbook is filled with easy to use exercises designed to introduce new skills and facilitate discussions that will help you move from insight to action.

Starting off on the Right Foot

Bryan,

I can’t tell you how much Gary and I loved meeting with you last Saturday. Thank you so much for making time for us. With the odds stacked against our marriage, we knew we wanted to do everything we could to start things off on the right foot. Knowing in advance which areas of our relationship could be problematic is helping us to work on those things before they become a problem. The process also reminds us how important communication is to a healthy relationship.

Many thanks for your wisdom and insight.

Re and Gary

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