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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Shame has been discussed since the early part of the Book of Genesis when Adam and Eve exhibited their shame by immediately covering themselves up after the fall. Shame is a natural expression of feeling overexposed in a particular situation or event. There is a point where this shame moves past a healthy shame into [...]</p>
<div style="display:block"><small><em>by Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC <a href="http://www.bryanvignery.com/trapped-in-the-silence-of-shame/#comments">Leave A Comment</a>http://twitter.com/bvigfocus<br />
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		<title>The Four Horsemen</title>
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<div style="display:block"><small><em>by Bryan E. Vignery, LCPC <a href="http://www.bryanvignery.com/the-four-horsemen/#comments">Leave A Comment</a>http://twitter.com/bvigfocus<br />
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